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Let's Talk About Aging Parents

A Real-Life Guide to Solving Problems with 27 Essential Conversations

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Caring for an aging parent can raise a host of tricky questions, but these conversation-starting scripts, plus expert advice, will help you and your parent find answers.

"In down-to-earth language, Laura proposes helpful scripts for having a host of often-prickly conversations about the health and safety of our parents."—The Wall Street Journal

Age-proofing an older relative's living space, figuring out powers of attorney, spotting and dealing with signs of dementia, asking them to give up the car keys or consider assisted living . . . the first step toward tackling these concerns and more is an honest, informed discussion.

Here are prompts and road maps for twenty-seven essential conversations—with your parent, other family members, and health care providers—including:

  • Does my parent need help around the house?
  • What kind of medical issues should we look out for?
  • Do I really need to help my parents if they're toxic?
  • How can my family share the caregiving load?
  • How to approach these topics is just as important as what needs to be said, so each chapter has tips for navigating complex emotions and finding shared ground when everyone has different ideas. You'll get informed, have a productive discussion, and make a plan—so you can get back to making the most of your time with your parent.

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      • Library Journal

        Starred review from May 1, 2024

        Many adults will find themselves taking care of their aging parents. CanAge CEO Watts (law and aging, Univ. of Toronto) gives practical advice on how to handle many situations, such as a parent with dementia, searching for good in-home care, and decisions that may be difficult to make. The book includes a step-by-step diagram and checklist that help caregivers examine each room in their parent's home to determine possible obstacles or spaces where they may need to help their parent more. There are also sample scripts for challenging conversations with aging parents and advice on how to have these talks without being overbearing. Watts's book shows that sometimes care involves coordinating with other family members, which often requires navigating all types of personalities, family dynamics, and other factors. To help with this, she offers tips for knowing when to remove oneself from discussions or situations. Her book also covers hearing aids, incontinence, gray divorces, safe sex for older parents, and death. VERDICT A highly recommended resource that tackles the many aspects of caregiving for an aging parent. It's chock-full of practical solutions to the many situations that may arise.

        Copyright 2024 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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